Registry Basics
Opening a bridal registry might ruin the suspense, surprise, and ultimately, the confusion that you and your partner experience opening up wedding packages. You will spend less time ogling oddly shaped gift boxes and more time using the gifts inside. Virtually, every gift will be one that you hand-selected. There will be no special trips back to the store to exchange duplicate gifts. Does that sound so bad?

•Personal Shopping Spree. Start jotting down potential gifts for your bridal registry before you open your account. Collect clippings from catalogues and magazines. List the specifics, preferred colors, and patterns for household items. Keep small notebooks around the house. A television commercial, TV show, or even a dream can trigger ideas.

•Opening Your Gift Registry. Choose one or two of your favorite stores to open your bridal registry. Call ahead and make an appointment to speak to a customer service representative. Make sure that the store you select will accept orders by telephone or through the Internet. The additional service will make it easier for out-of-town guests to participate in gift giving.

•Be Generous. It is okay to select more gifts than you expect to receive on your wedding day or at the bridal shower. Give guests plenty of options from which to choose. Make sure you include gifts that will work on any budget.

•Get Good Gifts. While established couples can opt for fun and creative gifts, it is a good idea for their younger counterparts to opt for traditional gifts. Flatware, bedding, bath towels, and small appliances are great gifts for couples starting life anew. Get rid of any preconceptions you may have about bridal registries. Opening a gift registry at your favorite store(s) does not make you pushy, greedy, or gluttonous. Most guests prefer purchasing wedding gifts for couples with bridal registries. They can zip by “your” store after work or purchase a gift online in less than 30 minutes. It really is that easy.